Did you have dreams when you were a child? What about now? What are your dreams? I want to do back to school. Sticking my toes in the blue waters of Bora Bora would be wonderful. I’ve always dreamed of owning a business. A home that’s mine is something I’ve always wanted.
Well, you’re not alone. All of us have dreams. Some dreams happen quickly, some take time. All legitimate, passion-driven dreams deserve to be pursued.
The years, 1995. The event, The Romance Writers of America Conference. As I sat there, in the front row at the editor’s panel session, feelings of excitement, contentment and peace danced a jumbled mix in my stomach. Throughout the conference, I’d asked questions about different publishing houses and editor then scoped out the editor that I was going to write for. After the session, I walked up, waited my turn and pitched my novel. She smiled and said, “Send it to me.” Send it to me!!! I thanked her, walked away cool, head held high. Inside, my mind yelled, ‘Yeah, baby!’
I called home that night and told my husband that I’d have a book contract in 6 months tops. Well, 6 months came and went. 6 more months, another year, five years then ten, still no book contract.
What do you do when your dream seems to go south? Don’t give up! Here’s what I suggest:
• Set your goals. Make a plan. Work the plan. If the plan doesn’t work, re-tweak the plan.
• Get a mentor, someone who is where you want to be. Someone who is living your dream and willing to share their expertise with you.
• Surround yourself with level-headed, go-getter, dreamers. (If you don’t take action to actively pursue your dream, you’re dead in the water.)
• Stay connected to the related industry of your dream. Attended conferences, workshops, join professional organizations and network with like-minded people. Some of the people that I’ve met along the way have become my closest friends.
• Your dream is yours. Do it for yourself. (If you’re pursuing your dream for someone else, then is it your dream or an obligation?)
• When it gets hard, take a step back, take a deep breath then get back in the game.
• Say positive affirmations. One of my favorites is: I refuse to accept the possibility of the death of my dreams.
What happened to your dream of becoming an author with a major publishing house, you ask? Well, that dream came to fruition17 years later.
I’m not going to lie and say waiting for that day was giggles and roses. Some days were so tough that I wanted to give up. Being strong for the people that believed in me wasn’t always easy either. Outside, I was the constant optimist, but on many days my mind was screaming, ‘What the hell!’ Then, I’d think about not accomplishing what I’d set out to do, all of the time and effort I’d put into bringing the dream to reality and letting down those people who had faith in the dream, then I’d exit my pity party and get back to work.
The only way you will see your dreams come true is if you never give up on them. You might think that 17 years is a long time. A lifetime of regrets is even longer. Don’t quit. Your dream is waiting!
About the Author:Born and raised in Philadelphia, the Howard University graduate embraced the written word at an early age. She credits this to her loving, older sister whom, while they were youngsters, made the author eat lotion on a regular basis. Realizing the need to sound-out the ingredients on the lotion label, Alicia stopped the lotion-eating practice, but continued to read the labels of the concoctions her sister brought for her to try. This early necessity to read flowered to a passion; hence, a writer was born.The award winning author resides in Maryland with her wonderful husband and son. Still an avid reader, label or otherwise, Alicia is hard at work completing her next suspense novel.Her latest book is the suspense novel, Dark Side of Valor.
Visit Alicia’s website at www.aliciasingleton.com.
Child advocate Lelia Freeman saves children for a living. As the director of ChildSafe Shelters, she ventures to abandoned squats and crackhouses to rescue teens from the hellish streets of Los Angeles. When she is summoned to Washington to serve on a committee that aids the children of a war-torn African nation, Lelia is kidnapped and becomes a political pawn in a sinister conspiracy. Oceans away from everything she knows, she must trust a mercenary to save her life, or die in the clutches of a psychopath.
Hunting, combat and staying alive are Elijah Dune’s specialties. Vengeance is his passion. Haunted by past demons, he’s travels to the Motherland to collect a debt. A debt that demands one payment. Death.
Caught in the crosshairs of a madman, Lelia and Elijah must survive the jungles of Zaire and the horrors of their pasts or be forever consumed by the DARK SIDE OF VALOR.
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